> Aggressive & Tough Dawah practise (everyone join in!)

[Qatada]

So here we ask questions which non muslims would ask about Islam, or even new muslims, and we have to try to respond to them without pasting articles.

It's about what YOU know, and you have to try to give a short and clear answer. We might learn some good responses from other members insha Allah. :)

[Qatada]

asalam alaikum


ok 1st random Question; Why do you moslemz people get divorced so easily? (by just saying 'talaq'?) is this another way for you to oppress women?!

[Qatada]

asalam alaikum


oh, and if you want, you can even be aggressive (for fun) [so long as this aggression doesn't oppose Islamic teachings i.e. don't joke about Islam, or attack it] but you can act slightly aggressive so we all can get a taste of how its like outside islamic sites to do dawah :p

carry on..

[Pk_#2]

Lol Moslemz.

[Umm Sufyaan]

Originally Posted by Qatada

asalam alaikum


ok 1st random Question; Why do you moslemz people get divorced so easily? (by just saying 'talaq'?) is this another way for you to oppress women?!

i would ask them what their way of getting a divorce is all about? whether something religiously, or just by the laws of the country they're in. Usually its a long drawn out process that goes through the courts, (im speaking in the sense of a non-religious law). In my country it takes something like a year before both parties are allowed to get married and register their marriage again.


i think at that point (once they have finished explaining their way of divorce)it would go without saying that divorce is something that should be easy not in the sense to cause hardship, but in the sense not to burden anyone.

than maybe i would ask questions like:
what really there to a divorce? why do it have to be so hard? I mean breaking up with your spouse isnt somehting easy, so to go through all that court process is gonna cause one a bigger headache.

oh and also i would ask: 'how/why is 'talaq' an oppression to the women?'

[Qatada]

wasalam alaikum warahmatulahi wabarakatuh


ur right sister, the answer is that islam makes life so much easier. if marriage is so easy by just 2 witnesses, the girl, her wali and the male, and him saying 'i accept' - then why can't divorce be so easy with the talaq and the waiting period?

the western judicial system puts people off marriage since they think its gna cost them so much for divorce and weddings etc. so they end up not getting married (and commiting zina/fornication instead, with children who dont know who their parents are etc). islam makes life simple and suitable for all cultures and ways of life with ease.

[Umm Sufyaan]

i just going to continue with the argument here, as the 'argumenter' inshallah.

the western judicial system puts people off marriage since they think its gna cost them so much for divorce and weddings etc.

just in the west!? why thats rich coming from a muslim .:mad: its not just like that in western countries. ive been to/heard of so many muslim weddings/marriages going into excessive amounts, to the extent people delay marriage practically forever. so it anit just happening in the west.

[Abdul-Fattah]

Question:
Why do you moslemz people get divorced so easily? (by just saying 'talaq'?) is this another way for you to oppress women?!
Reply:
Actually the right to divorce is something that the feminist movement fought very hard to get in the west. And it's a right they have only acquired relatively recent. Not all marriages can people sometimes make bad decisions, or marry the wrong person. It happens a lot in many times in different areas with different cultures. Not allowing divorce would actually be a cruel oppression.