Attitude with relative with different aqeedah

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Old 12-04-2008, 07:24 PM   #1
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What should be our attitude with close relatives in family with whom we have much interaction when if they are involved in bidah practices and ignore and mock us after we tell them the correct aqeedah , should we stop talking to them or just remain as nice as ever?

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i think it would depend on their mentality to be honest.
with some people, kindness may work with them, but with others harshness as just as good...

also, the way you do dawah shouldn't always be direct...some people react to a kind personality...

also this may help, inshallah.
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As-Salamu 'Alaykum bro

the Qur'aan and the Sahih Sunnah is sufficient to answer this and we used the methods prescribed in the Islaam texts and implement them how the Salaf (may Allah be pleased with them) implemented them. Allah Ta'ala has conveyd us in His Kalam (speech):
"Invite (all) to the way of thy Lord with wisdom and beautiful preaching; and argue with them in ways that are best and most gracious: for thy Lord knoweth, best who have strayed from His Path, and who receive guidance" [Surah Nahl:125 - interpretation of the meaning]
Kindness and patience is the key and sorting out the priorities i.e. tawheed and 'aqeedah comes first. Wallahu A'lam
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